| My boy doesn't want one video game or one | | | | suggesting that games influence brain |
| video game console, he wants the Nintendo, the | | | | development for the negative and the too much |
| Sony and the Xbox and he wants all the games | | | | time in front of a screen makes children more |
| that go with it. He also wants access to the | | | | easily distracting and increases the difficulty they |
| computer so that he can play games on the | | | | have in remaining still. The ever increasing |
| computer as well. It is as if he is plugged into | | | | diagnosis of disorders like Attention Deficit |
| these games all the time, at least he would like to | | | | Hyperactivity Disorder may suggest that the |
| be if allowed. Video games are big business, with | | | | number of hours in front of highly stimulating |
| over $13 billion spent each year on video and | | | | objects may be compromising our children's ability |
| computer games. This suggests that an awful lot | | | | to be attentive and to occupy themselves quietly. |
| of playing is going on. New releases of games are | | | | Computer and video games will only add to this |
| eagerly anticipated by players and many are willing | | | | problem. And there is the issue of video game |
| to stand in line for a day or two to get hold of a | | | | addiction. |
| new system or spend hours hunting down a new | | | | While the American Medical Association has |
| release. Unquestionably, video games are | | | | decided that there is insufficient evidence to |
| attractive toys, particularly to boys. | | | | declare excessive video gaming an addiction, it is |
| Undoubtedly, parents have been concerned for a | | | | only because of a lack of sufficient research. |
| long time about the consuming nature of video | | | | There are many that believe in time, excessive |
| games. Hours spent in front of a screen, in the | | | | video gaming will be a recognized disorder. There |
| dark if possible "can't be healthy" for a child. The | | | | are clinics that are beginning to offer treatment |
| encouragement to play or more traditional board | | | | for gaming addiction and there are support groups |
| game or to even go outside and play is | | | | beginning to form to deal with the issue. Addiction |
| something any boy of the electronic age has | | | | seems to present itself most often with games |
| heard in response to his desire to play his | | | | associated with on line communities. |
| electronic games. But is there any danger in video | | | | These games usually involve the development of |
| games? It is possible to overdo any activity, even | | | | characters. These characters can develop abilities |
| good ones. One can sleep too much, exercise | | | | and skills as well as accumulate weapons and |
| excessively and certainly we can eat too much | | | | other assets that are valuable in the game world. |
| hence it is without question possible to play video | | | | The development of these characters takes |
| games in excess. But defining excess can be | | | | many hours to develop and make the game very |
| difficult. Clearly, three to four hours a day every | | | | engrossing. Combined with the possibility of |
| day would be viewed as excessive by most, but | | | | interacting with others, these online games form a |
| what about three to four hours on the weekend? | | | | type of alternate world into which many escape. |
| Should we count it only if they are played straight | | | | There have been recent stories of divorces, |
| through or even if there are sizable chunks of | | | | health problems, child neglects and even death |
| time in between sessions? Is it excessive if there | | | | associated with these games in particular. Is your |
| is no real demonstrative impact on the child and | | | | child addicted? Ask yourself the following |
| his behavior, attitudes and performance? There is | | | | questions - |
| also the variability within children to consider, some | | | | Does your child:o play almost every day?o often |
| will be affected more easily by gaming than | | | | play for long periods (over 3-4 hours a time)?o |
| others. | | | | play for excitement?o get restless and irritable if |
| There is growing evidence that video games can | | | | they can't play?o sacrifice social and sporting |
| be both good and bad. Video games can teach | | | | activities?o play instead of doing their |
| certain skills such as cooperation, strategy and | | | | homework?o Try to cut down their playing but |
| team building as well as some exposure to the | | | | can't?o Playing for increasing amounts of time?o |
| technology that is ubiquitous in today's world. The | | | | Thinking about gaming during other activities?o |
| new Wii is showing some benefits in terms of | | | | Gaming to escape from real-life problems, |
| physical activity and is being used by some | | | | anxiety, or depression?o Lying to friends and |
| physical therapists. Do a Google search on the | | | | family to conceal gaming?o Feeling irritable when |
| benefits of video games and you will find | | | | trying to cut down on gaming? |
| reputable articles discussing the benefits of video | | | | Answering yes to four or more of these |
| games. But the dangers are there as well. It is | | | | questions suggests that there may be a problem. |
| beyond doubt and well documented that TV | | | | If there is a problem what can you do about it? |
| violence influences violence in children. While there | | | | Here are some resources to get your started on |
| is little research into the connection between | | | | dealing with your loved one's potential problem. |
| video games and violence, can the link be weaker | | | | 1. Tips for Getting Video Gaming Under Control |
| than it is in television viewing? A game in which | | | | National Institute on Media and the Family |
| your character engages in violence has to be as | | | | Taming the Video Game Tiger |
| influential as TV. But the dangers seem to go | | | | 2. Computer Addiction Services |
| beyond the potential influence these games may | | | | McLean Hospital |
| have on character. | | | | 115 Mill Street |
| A recent study at Stanford University | | | | Belmont, MA 02478 |
| demonstrated that the brains of males responded | | | | Phone: 617-855-2908 |
| to video game playing more than the brains of | | | | Call or write for a local referral |
| females, and that the increased brain activity was | | | | 3. Center for Internet Addiction Recovery |
| in the pleasure center of the brain. While the | | | | (Go to: |
| number of participants were small (less than 25), | | | | Lists of resources and helps for a variety of |
| this type of research demonstrates that games | | | | online addictive behaviors |
| do effect the brain. Other researchers are | | | | 4. Talk to your family doctor about your concern. |